Great job sticking to your boundary. You definitely do not need H living under your roof for a few days.
Originally Posted by Eagle3
The thing is I can't help it making up stories about why he is going to his M again whilst just 3 weeks ago he told me he doesn't want to see her anymore.
We all work to rationalize; the creating stories to fit the few facts and fictions we hear. Let it be. Not your monkey, not your circus. Answers do reveal themselves in time. And usually when we are calm and at peace.
Oh, by the way, a gal for whom English is a second language and uses “whilst”, gets top marks in my books.
Originally Posted by Eagle3
I really want to know as otherwise it will keep me anxious since I don't know the truth at the moment.
Yes, fretting over the future or unknown things encourages and reinforces feelings of being anxious. Live the present. Deal with the present. Let the future unveil as it happens.
You are making and keeping yourself anxious. Not knowing is ok. Hard to accept, sure. Yet ok. Just got to roll with it.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
