WAW Hired a Divorce Coach (Cont11.)

[Mumin]

On division of assets, do the big things first. Agree on a method for valuation.
For the small stuff I scheduled a long day with XW where we had a babysitter and we started at the back of the house, went through every single box and drawer till we were at the other end of the house.
Long rough day, but it was efficient and after we had an agreement on everything. Even old family photos and pictures that the kids had made.