I never expected pilot to reach out again. I had written him off.
It's funny how the NC thing works. They always come back for a peek at some point.
Originally Posted by KitCat
I liked him enough the last time to try again. I just got burned a second time and that [censored], but I'm okay because what if it had worked out?
Sound reasonable. Though remember fool me thrice that's 100% on you!
Originally Posted by KitCat
So I was letting my M go but I suppose they feel some rift in the force and come back just to make sure you're moving on just yet... because you never know... they may have made a mistake.
Funny how that works.
Originally Posted by KitCat
As for the reasons people divorce. They are quite simple. I do not feel you like me. I do not feel you love me. I do not feel you respect me. Research documented by Gottman.
I remember the last relationship talk we had I said "I am sorry I didn't make you feel more loved" she said "that's not it I always felt you loved me". Pretty sure mine was the third. She would say it sometimes. She wasn't wrong. Some of her actions and choices I did not respect but I should have handled it better. I also accept at the time we did not have the proper communication tools. Its easy to get into a rut.
Originally Posted by KitCat
I thought we were slowly getting there - esp in December. But, he's pulled back again. And, just like Pilot I'm not chasing him either. He knows where to find me.
