This why this board is not thriving and won't survive.

It will be the same 6 people kicking it in the sand box.

I got disappointed by pilot because I had expectations. He bothered coming back so I was hopeful that it might be because there was something more there.

I had a right to process my feelings, be disappointed. But, I was the one to say... I get it he is not that into me.

LH probed more questions which I honestly answered. But, I kept accepting that there was nothing more for me to do.

Everyone else chimes in about how nothing has changed.

How about you take a minute and go KK - great! I'm glad you can see pursuing this with pilot is not your best option. That's positive... not the negative spouting of my bad taste in toxic men. WTH... I just said several pages ago I was no longer contacting him. I processed the last text he sent me here for context... and let it go.

Everything has changed. I've changed.

All of you need to take a step back and look at how you approach things and people. THIS is the reason this board is failing.