I had more than 2 dates with pilot. When we first met I did not even give him ANY serious consideration until after the 3rd date.
As for the other guy. I made myself available. I even reached out and invited him out the first time around AND the second time he reached out to try again. The ball was 100% in his court. I will attest the second time I was focused on the final wrapping up of the D but I was honest about it.
I will NOT be made to feel bad because I chose to be focused on my XH regardless of his issues. I'm not some saint. I chose to focus on over the decade we had together.
My choice may not have been your choice... but F Off. It was mine to make.
I don't need judgements.
HOW MANY TIMES HAVE I TYPED OUT - I'M NOT PUTTING UP WITH PILOT ANY LONGER AND I'M LEAVING IT GO.
Stop talking like I'm still pursuing this guy. geesh...
