It does seem to look the questions trigger you a bit. In your time away from us - have you looked at why that is? Why you feel such judgement when we ask you hard questions?
Valeska, I've thought on this for myself. FWIW, sometimes, a hard question or joke is preceded by a comment that's judgmental ("Nothing has changed."--those ALL and NOTHINGs comments!) On the Internet it can be easy to see the following hard questions or jokes through the same lens even if the opinions of the following poster are different. That is to say, from time to time I know I've taken well-meaning comments from amazing people more harshly than intended. For me, the solution was a small break. For Steve, the solution was to block someone who regularly distracted him. My personal opinion is *some* things haven't changed. I'm happy *other* things are going well for KK and I hope she feels supported in the way you wrote on the other thread even as she's asked hard questions.
