Originally Posted by KitCat
I'm still allowed disappointments. It doesn't mean I'm broken as a person.

KK I didn't say you shouldn't be disappointed. I questioned a broken heart. Last year I dated a girl for about 3.5 months where things were going really well. We were exclusive seeing each other when we could. One day I get a text that she heard from her ex boyfriend and needed time to think things through. I gracefully bowed out. Was I disappointed? Yes. Was I heart broken? No. My heart wasn't hers to break we were just getting to know each other. I never contacted her again and accepted her decision. This is what all of this pain teaches us.
Originally Posted by KitCat
I'm ducking amazing. I'm wicked smart. I have a successful career making bank. I'm financially secure. I have no debt but what is still minimally owed on my house which the $200k in equity is all mine as well.
If you truly believe this then why are you settling for two idiots?
Originally Posted by KitCat
If there was something better than me he surely would have found it in the last year or in the 8yr prior to meeting me.
KK I don't think you understand what this guy is all about. It is not you personally. He is a player.