He walked out a year ago because I was still married and didn't think I would be divorced.
Why are you so quick to believe that was the reason?
Originally Posted by KitCat
So if he's just looking for a hook up/sex, is that a normal line to make in the sand. He would not even speak to me again until I was D.
Uuuummm yeah! It's an easy way to let you down easy.
Originally Posted by KitCat
As for on line dating after the last date I went on (pre-hooking back up with pilot) I removed myself from all sites and decided on a 6mo hiatus from them.
I am curious to why so a long hiatus?
Originally Posted by KitCat
Both guys I am friends with are nice guys. At first both were into me, but as you see I'm bit of an odd duck myself... which is why I get pilot to an extent.
KK you and the pilot are not the same person. I think you are looking for something real though I am really not sure due to the ex husband thing. The pilot is a player. There is a difference.
Originally Posted by KitCat
I'm not looking for thrilling so much as I am calm and steady.
Not sure you can handle calm and steady.
Originally Posted by KitCat
I'm just frustrated, angry, sad... I know I have to work through this.
All normal emotions. Dating at 53 for a woman is not easy.
Originally Posted by KitCat
And, if he was truly interested as long as what I said was sincere it would never be the wrong thing if it were the right person. He's just not that into me.
Ding ding ding. I wouldn't take it personal he is not into anyone long term.
Originally Posted by KitCat
Its gonna take a bit to get my heart unbroke from this... but I will not be chasing him like I did last time.
Ok I do not want to invalidate your feelings but heart broken???? It may be time for ....wait for it.... therapy.........
