The honest answer is ------- this site has not grown.
You tube videos out there of Michele are old and out dated. She has no new presence. What she offers is her personal opinion and what has worked for some couples.
There is a very huge site out there with a huge social presence. Weekly podcasts, videos and a strong FB presence. They are very research based principles --- not just their research. They have evolved and structured their program based on principles and what was working and not working. Its understanding how people fall out of love and can fall back into love ---- yes, there is research. Its understanding why a spouse leaves a marriage, just 3 reasons - ask Gottman. Knowledge is power. Sure you can understand the tactics to pull a spouse back in but it don't understand what makes a M go the long haul you will make the same mistakes again.
Why does your spouse hate you???? You have to understand the 3 types of hate. Do you know the Sternberg's Triangulation Theory of Love?
They are a group of thousands world wide.
They focus on being positive - not the negative. They focus on your inner growth.
Trained coaches are available once weekly for hour long Q&A. The three most prominent heads of the organization are front and center regularly. Posting videos and sometimes making personal comments.
I'm not dissing Michele and her information. It is valuable. But, if you look at the decline of this site is because little new information is being fed into it. If Michele herself cannot free her time for a little attention to the board what about her coaches?
Unless new energy and blood is not pumped into this site it will continue to hover on life support.
I almost liken this board now the Battlestar Galactica Theme --- those few remaining are leading a ragtag fugitive fleet on a lonely quest.
