I hear all those things and those are not things I have not said to myself.
He walked out a year ago because I was still married and didn't think I would be divorced. So if he's just looking for a hook up/sex, is that a normal line to make in the sand. He would not even speak to me again until I was D.
As for on line dating after the last date I went on (pre-hooking back up with pilot) I removed myself from all sites and decided on a 6mo hiatus from them.
Both guys I am friends with are nice guys. At first both were into me, but as you see I'm bit of an odd duck myself... which is why I get pilot to an extent.
I'm not looking for thrilling so much as I am calm and steady.
I'm just frustrated, angry, sad... I know I have to work through this. And, if he was truly interested as long as what I said was sincere it would never be the wrong thing if it were the right person. He's just not that into me.
Its gonna take a bit to get my heart unbroke from this... but I will not be chasing him like I did last time.
