In fact the lawyer is now looking into filing for divorce in the UK where we got married. In the UK the courts will take into account financial contributions to the marriage.
Time urgency might be critical, whoever files first might get jurisdiction. Definitely do not drag your feet on determining if UK would be better for you.
There are also ways to question jurisdiction, but that is a another can of worms.
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