Any chance part of you wanted to meet her in person with hopes or expectations (even if subconsciously)?
Yes, there were expectations on my side - I expected her to be reasonable about division of assets!
I was very calm, collected and measured during the meeting and agreed to nothing. "Let me have a think about that one".
But I agree with you on the no need to meet up.
Since then, any communication has been about the cat. He's still hanging on, but I'm going to have to make the final call in the coming few days. I'm holding it together, but I don't think I can take much more
