We met up a couple of weeks ago for the first time in months to go through assets.
Btw...there's really no need to "meet up" to discuss assets. That can all be done via email - which gives you time to process and then respond rationally and serves as documentation - or even via lawyers if needed without any direct communication. Any chance part of you wanted to meet her in person with hopes or expectations (even if subconsciously)?
Originally Posted by Magnhild
I have got a lawyer, and have read enough to know not to agree anything directly with her.
Good.
Originally Posted by Magnhild
In fact the lawyer is now looking into filing for divorce in the UK where we got married. In the UK the courts will take into account financial contributions to the marriage.
Good. Glad you're positioning yourself for the best financial result.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
