Thanks, BL. I have got a lawyer, and have read enough to know not to agree anything directly with her.
In fact the lawyer is now looking into filing for divorce in the UK where we got married. In the UK the courts will take into account financial contributions to the marriage.
I don't want to divorce, but I also don't want to be trampled on financially. Jeez, I really miss how she used to be - she was never like this before, and it does make it easier when I see this side of her.
