It was quick, 15 minutes. I felt a little cold and distant. There was a moment I debated being snarky to throw shade at her, but what’s the point. She began to cry at the end and getting on the call it looked like she had been crying. I guess her grieving also makes sense, and I recognize how different the two of us are - it’s just hard for me to comprehend crying during the divorce proceeding that I fought for and wanted.
So next step for me will be working through an annulment process with my church. For me that will bring true closure if I can get it. We also still have to actually do the work of dividing the assets, which will suck to work on but I figure by the end of March everything should be divided and I will have filed for my annulment.
It’s just one foot in front of the other.
It is nice that it’s starting to feel like spring. Love the longer days. Hope to snowboard one more time or two and then go n to biking and kayaking.
