now you're sounding like someone with their business hat on. good goin!! you can ask your lawyer about how husband is comped and how to forestall game playing with that. if he can't come up with the lump sum, then he forgoes assets - house, retirement, etc.

he wants this D ...

he put this ball in motion.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver