Husband MLc need help#3

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Stella20,

Consult your attorney and accountant and then act on their advice. Period.

It's easy to get emotional after reading a letter from your H's attorney. I remember that happening to me as well, even when I had been feeling strong for weeks, and even if what was communicated never even factored into the result. Remember it's written up in the best interest of your H, not yours, and likely also flavored to get you riled up. Take your time, settle down emotionally, and consider it rationally. As bttrfly states, it's a business negotiation at this point. The terms lay out by your H's attorney is the first lob over the all and likely not your best deal / the end result.

I am not trying to sound greedy, but...

No need to qualify your statement with "I'm not trying to sound greedy". You don't have to explain yourself here or to your H. He is making this choice based on his own (perceived) best interest - make sure you're looking out for your best interest. Get a deal that is best for you under the law. That's not being greedy, it's standing up for yourself and your rights.