My exh said it was "Time for something new" ...

Fast forward to last February ... son and I were talking. I said something disparaging about myself, and commented that OW/AP/2.0/Vista was probably in perfect physical shape, blonde, brown eyed (that's another thing my husband told me shortly post-BD, that he thought brown eyed blondes were his ideal for sexy - I am a hazel eyed brunette) ... my son said he had enough of me disparaging myself and since I'd clearly never seen her, he snagged a photo off her social media and showed it to me. She's 2 inches shorter than me. She's 10-15 pounds heavier than I was at BD (exh fat shamed me for the last several years of our marriage), she has the same hair, her eyes are a tad lighter hazel than mine. She is my doppleganger, per my son. She looks like she could be related to us.

Something new my sweet Italian @$$. These people are NUTS, Stella. Don't let him make you nuts, too! xoxoxo


M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver