Ok, so apparently I put my advice "insane". Not sure how but that doesn't matter.
Frankly I agree with both WF and Steve here and my guess is WF knows more about D in your country, where I come from it is a bit different.
In my D the divorce fees where the equivalent of about 700 USD in total, and I got about 55% of the net worth after negotiations about the house.
So OBVIOUSLY if she is offering to just leave and take "nothing", take the offer.

Also regarding "game playing", my reading of what you are saying Joshua is that you wont be tip-toeing around W from now on. You will start taking responsibility for yourself and your future. So again, if the best possible outcome for you from here on is to sign her papers then take the offer.

But like Steve said, "Stay wary, know your rights, and protect yourself".

Last edited by Mumin; 02/26/22 07:50 AM.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021