Oh yeah… another example… Had a message from another guy on POF. Again….looked like a nice guy but lives an hour away. I didn’t see it for a couple of weeks so I replied with “Sorry for the late reply. I didn’t see your message. And then asked him how his day was going.” He responds with… “My day would be a whole lot better if you were cuddling up to me on the couch. What idiot singled you up? You’re gorgeous. Do you ever come to Vic? Do you want to?” I suppose that kind of a response would be fine for some people but I’m just looking for someone who seems a little less like a frat boy just looking to hook up with someone. I expect a guy in his late forties or early fifties to be a bit more sophisticated in his approach. Is that too much to ask?