then finished off with...wait for it... "I'm sooooo excited DV6. I knew that God would send you to me one day [kissy face emoji]." So I contemplated that for a moment [and read it a second time to make sure I had read it right], then clearly heard a voice in my head say, "Delete him." So I did. Whether that was God or my own intuition, I have no idea but that guy had "potential stalker" written all over him. Seems to me that is something you would say to someone you had been going out with for a long time, who you clearly loved and wanted to express how grateful you were that they came into your life... not someone who likes the same tv shows as you and had just said "hello". Wow. It's a good thing that so many people wave their red flags in front of your face so you can't miss them...lol. Bullet...dodged.
So I totally agree his comment comes off as too strong too soon and I'd never say something like that before even meeting someone, but also continue to be intrigued by how a guy's enthusiasm can turn a woman off. You'd think interest and excitement would be a good thing. Many dating/attraction resources I've read post-D talk about guys being mysterious with their intentions and not over pursuing or getting attached too quickly, allowing the woman to get comfortable and ultimately fall first. That feedback advice seems to be confirmed at times by several female posters' comments on this board. I mean is this guy really a stalker, or might he just be excited at the prospect of dating you (and is that really such a bad thing)?
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
