Thank you everyone, your support and experience is so much needed and appreciated. Thanks for being here today for yet another Stella meltdown.

Bttrfly- I am learning, and yes, it is a rollercoaster for sure. This is gonna take awhile.

Kml- i have it listed as a**hole. and his ringtone is bullsh*ter alert sound.

Dnj. yes 24 hour rule, I need to make that my standard.

L- I don't feel comfortable blocking him yet, maybe someday.

Big hug to everyone