Ginger --- where is the proof that he is still with OW???

I don't have any.

He says he is not, but frankly I would not put him at the top of authority of truth. I am aware that his male cohort for the last 2year set him up on date 5mo ago... and my XH was not impressed. Now this male cohort is part of this high school group... XH and OW and this guy all went to school together and know each other. They used go out as a foursome with corhorts wife (again all high school pals). NOW, why would this guy set up my XH on a double date if he was still with OW???

I literally can find NO PROOF they are still together. I'm not stalking him.

We are not in a committed relationship. That does not mean I'm now the OW.