Ok some of it makes sense but your ex is a shady dude. I don’t see an exclusive healthy relationship with either dude but you’re a big girl and know what you are up against.
More to relationships then great sex. Who said that? Lol.
Yes, I know there is more to a relationship than great sex.
The point is I'm NOT in a relationship with either.
That doesn't mean I have to be a nun. If I can have great sex with my XH because after a decade you know exactly all the buttons and whistles to push and blow... then why not. I'm not saying you can't have great sex with a new person but its a crap shoot right???
I'm not expecting my XH to come back. If he ever has a come to Jesus moment and I'm available we'll see. Otherwise I'm just living my life in a way that works for me.
