He's doing his best to be central in everything. It's all about him - you are just one of the claques (an obscure word I know but applicable).
One thing I did learn second hand about affairs is that it's often not about the sex. It's about the thrill of getting away with it and the power they get over others who they feel want them.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells