well, let's think about that ... they always test and push. think of a three year old running amok. that's what the average MLCr reminds me of, a three year old who is going to keep touching the stove until he finally gets burned.
Burn him.
He's using the kids to test your NC boundary.
That's my take.
He wants to get you into the mix, triangulating is a specialty of theirs. DON'T FALL FOR IT. Advise your kids on the side if you must, if they come to you for guidance, but don't allow yourself to be dragged in.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver