Thanks DnJ,
I keep reading over and over what you wrote. I know that H is not in love with OW, and that it is infatuation. That the A is a sympton, but yes it hurts like He!! to know he is shacking up with her and running all over as a couple. Being so public... why do they have to be so public with there R, it is so disrespectful to everyone.


Got a email from my ATTY with a notice of retainer for H. My ATTY said that H's ATTY is a good lawyer and "appreciates the value of trying to create agreement, rather than conflict. Has worked with him in hundreds of cases over the years and that overall he thingks this is going to work out reasonably well for me given the other available options. " What does that mean???