Thanks KML. Yeah...I think there are issues with the transplant although I don't know that for sure. XH texted me today to see if I could help him out with transporting D14 to her volleyball as he is gong to be at the hospital "pushing for results". I have no idea what that means. I guess he thinks they aren't helping her in the way that they should?? I know he has had some issues with her doctor here and thinks he isn't on the same page as the doctors who did her transplant and that the medications he has prescribed are causing more problems than they should. Who knows? I don't think this is an easy illness to deal with as a patient or a doctor. It's high risk no matter how you look at it.
Seeing him being so involved and concerned about her wellbeing brings up a lot of mixed emotions for me. On the one hand, I am impressed by his level of devotion and how supportive he is. On the other hand, I think about how he might have been in our marriage if something like this had occurred with me and honestly, I don't think he would have cared too much. I could picture him just dropping me off at the hospital and then texting me occasionally for updates but that's about it. That is actually really sad for me to think about. About how one-sided our marriage was... at least the last half anyway. I do recall having to go to emergency for an infection following my C-section and I'm pretty sure he took me there and stayed with me. But that was a couple years before he started cheating on me.
Anyway...no point on dwelling in the past or feeling sorry for myself. It is what it is. This whole thing with his wife is really bothering me though. I keep thinking about how I wanted the karma bus to hit him when all of his activities came to light. But this isn't exactly what I had in mind.
