So, OW's H just called me, I haven't talk to him for a few weeks now. He called to see how I was holding up ( he really is a nice sweet man ) He said that he has not had much contact with her and out of the blue he got a text from her. Said she was at bowling and some guy was playing county music on the juke box and it made her think of him..... Gee, you think she told my H she sent that text? Whatever, not my monkey, what a trainwreck they are.