Andrew, Yes I was tested, ended up with a bacterial infection, not a STD but can be caused by multiple partners. I have never had any issues down there,ever!! When I told H he got defensive and denied it was from him and his dirty disgusting OW, who I am sure was sleeping around while H was still with me on the weekends. But she is as pure as the fallen snow apparently, nevermind the multiple affairs she has had...
DnJ, For the first 10ish years I did make more money than H, but that has changed drasticlly now. H still won't talk to me about the phone or cable bills, just that there is no hurry to change anything. He really is clueless, I don't know if he thinks we are just going to keep our phone plan together, and the cable.. He uses our cable via his phone to watch some sports stuff.
Deja, yes, if you are not happy than talk to your spouse. Don't do this. H never mentioned one word to me, not one..... Instead he acted like a selfish immature teenage and went behind my back so he could move on with out being alone. Coward.. Sick, just f-ing sick. What kind of person does this. To intentionally emotional destroy the one that loves you the most. To destroy a life of the one person who has always been there for you??
So yes, sometimes I think of all of this and just want to scream at him for being such a selfish, cruel, self centered monster..I know he is in MLC, but I am his wife, you have a problem you talk to your wife. M is for life, not until you are bored. I know he is sick in the head, but seriously he is a adult, deal with your life before you sack up with your married OW. They are both disgusting, running around like they are married, disrespecting both there marriages and spouses. Just a disgrace, how anyone can even stand to be around them is beyond me.
Yes, I still love him and want my M, I don't know how that would even be possible. It would take a mircle at this point.
