May to be clear I meant in the beginning when he wanted to get his own place and you refused. To me that had control written all over it. Also I didn't see the remorse in the beginning which turns out is probably just a LBS fantasy. I am a proponent of time and space. I think you and I are more similar then you may think. I think we were both in this to keep our family togethers and didn't want to lose. To keep my family together I would have forgiven a PA if the remorse was there but I wouldn't never tolerate a PA from anyone else if that makes sense. Baby momma rights get certain exceptions in my book. Anyways it work out for you in the long run that you trusted your own instinct.
