Where to start with WAS

[SteveLW]

Joshua, I typed a big long reply yesterday and deleted it because, truth be told, you are getting great input from BL42.

So I just want to encourage you, make sure you are reading all of the information in the welcome message. There is gold in that reading. I paid particular attention to sandi's rules and writings. Implementing her advice changed the dynamic in my situation, and I do not think my W and I would have R'd without it.

Also, read Divorce Busting. If you have already, read it again. I have read DBing multiple times and every time I learn something new from it. Just keep learning, progressing, and growing as an individual. Knowledge is your friend!