DejaVu, your approach towards encouraging her with sports sounds very mature to me. My father pressured me to play basketball--because I was athletic and got my height early--and that looked nothing like your interactions with your daughter. Yours sounded 90% amazing. The last 10%? Human. I'm sorry you're facing such a radical 180 in her behavior towards you. I would be crushed and sleepless, too. Practical advice--try to get a nap. It sounds trite, but every hole feels deeper and worse when we don't get enough sleep. Sending ((hugs)) and prayers and support your way.
