Bema,

Originally Posted by Bema
I am responding to BL42's comments. I do not know how to do the quote thing.

My response: BL42, are you still married?
No, I'm not. I did want to keep my family together and work on the marriage but my ExW did not and it was therefore completely out of my control, despite my efforts. I've been posting here for a year and a half, starting about 6 months after "Bomb Day". You can read about my sitch here if you're interested: WAW w/Exit Affair or WW? - Don't Want Divorce (1)

Originally Posted by Bema
Do you feel his points are valid about you being controlling?

Are you being honest about why you want to participate in Michele’s training?
Good questions by LH. Care to share?

Are you interested in feedback about your situation, or just about the 2 day intensives?


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21