DejaVu, I'm so sorry you're going through this. That would hit me like a ton of bricks. I agree with your assessment that it's probably 90% teenageryness and 10% things you've done. I hope you can hold onto that thought. You know you're a good mom. You know you've been the one who was there and you made the hard choices and sacrifices. I bet you're missing her tonight. Hang in there. ((Hugs))