Question for the guys… if you were going on a third date with someone you were interested in, would you want to know beforehand that they weren’t quite on the same page yet (if ever) or would you rather they just went out with you and if they still weren’t feeling it, talk to you about it at the end of the date?
I'd want to know--more info puts me in the driver's seat if I have other ladies in my queue or other things I could be doing. If she seemed special, though, I'd give it more chances. I don't think you're OBLIGATED to say anything. You're not leading him on, you're allowing more chances for things to develop. He knows exactly how far you two have gotten.
