I would want to know. You can't control someone else's feelings, but if I was into someone and they weren't into me, I would rather know and move on than to keep trying to get to something that wasn't likely to happen anyway (if that makes sense).


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids