Still at home recovering from Covid. My son is home as well. He started getting sick last weekend and tested positive on Tuesday. His symptoms are different from mine. My biggest issue has been sinus congestion whereas he was very nauseous in the beginning and now has a cough. Both of us will be returning to work/school on Monday.
Been hearing from D almost every day and VP every other day. VP asked me if I would like to go bowling next week when I am feeling better. I told him okay but am dreading it. It feels like a lot of pressure to feel something. I am really torn. Old me would have called it quits after our last date but I’m really trying to give it a chance. I’ve thought about just being honest with him and letting him know that I’m open to building a friendship but not feeling a romantic connection at this point but I think that would make it awkward. This is the worst part of internet dating. It would be so much easier to just meet someone IRL where you can be friends and then date if something is there. A third date really implies that I’m feeling something I’m not and it feels disingenuous to me to let him think that.
Question for the guys… if you were going on a third date with someone you were interested in, would you want to know beforehand that they weren’t quite on the same page yet (if ever) or would you rather they just went out with you and if they still weren’t feeling it, talk to you about it at the end of the date?