Hi Bema, I've been here for several years and don't know of anyone that has done the 2 day intensive. I know I've seen some things related to intensives that they are designed to try to get couples that are on the brink, in order to get the WAS to question their desire to D. So if you can talk her into it maybe it can work? I don't know what the rate of success of them are, though if I would say that you'd be hard pressed to find a better resource than MWD! Has your W expressed that she would be willing to attend one?
The important thing is that you go in with no expectations. I think a better hail mary, depending on your situation (and I don't know a lot about your sitch) is the LRT. I think the LRT for you would be difficult since you are still in the same house. Unfortunately, it is very rare that there is magic bullet to fix things once a spouse has dropped the D bomb.
Have you read Divorce Busting? I would say that would be a great next step if you haven't.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
