And I do freely admit I am pretty far to the truth and honour side of things. I’d not want to win W back by sneak or such. I live authentically. If she can’t see it, or doesn’t want it, that’s ok. For I do.
Which is better, D? To give her H a chance to realize that the natural consequence of his actions is that he may lose her, and possibly coming to his senses when he thinks she might date other men? Or wait until she has completely moved on and IS dating other men, for him to feel that pain and want to come back but she's already over it and involved with someone new?
I vote that the first is better - to give him a chance, if he feels that, before she has totally moved on. And I don't think being a little vague about where she's going, leaving out some flowers or a couple of nearly empty wine glasses, is dishonest. She's just leaving him wondering. And giving him a little glimpse of what the consequences of his actions might become.
