Just caught up and I’m so proud of you for putting your foot down. Wow, the way he speaks to you sounds so much like my H. I agree the chain lock would be a good idea, as well as much of the advice you have received from the crew.

All I can say is try to accept it will feel weird as he leaves. And try to distract yourself. Hugs to you! You got this!

El


Me 52, H 56
T10 M7, 2nd MR for both
2 Step Sons (19 and 21)
BD: Fall 2020
D finalized: July 2022
XH Married AP soon after D day.