Your choices are your own but I think this conversation between you and LH is good. You both often say the same thing towards newcomers just from different lenses. I encourage you to not ignore each others posts because in all honesty - ! We never know which post, which perspective, or which debate could be the one that helps heartbroken people find answers to their questions, appropriate anger to make the hard decision, the inkling of self worth to continue fighting.
I typed up something similar, but you worded it better!
I especially agreevwith V19 on this: "it ain't about either of you. It's about helping these folks"
That's why I'm here. The only reason. And also why I believe calling out other vets I disagree with is wholly unproductive.
Last edited by SteveLW; 02/10/2212:40 AM.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
