Steve the bottom line is you have no if your W had a PA (50/50 at best) and how you would have reacted. You had a young daughter at the time. You shouldn't judge those who decided to stick it out to keep their families together especially if there is remorse after the PA.
As Mike Tyson said "everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face".
First, where did I judge anyone?
Second, I was clear this is MY boundary. And that there are others that share that boundary and should not be judged for it.
Third, for someone that accuses me of judging you sure do a lot of judging!
You are a different kind of cat, LH!
Personally, I don't know how people put up with physical cheating.
The statement above is judgment. I have to keep you honest Steve. You make these statements like "reconciling is harder then going through D". You don't know that and hopefully never will. You have never had to miss a day without your daughter you didn't choose to. You make these statements about dating after divorce and how it should be and no sex before marriage blah blah blah when you have no clue how it is out there. You want to call me on my $hit go ahead. I'm a big boy. I just get tired sometimes with the holier than thow bs that's all. I know you mean well but sometimes I have to respond. Rant over lol.
LH again, you are wrong. I'd have to go back and look at the quote. However, there is no way I could even say that since I've never gone through a D! (Dang, it is ground hog's day or something?? LOL You are like a WAS, you drag up the past!)
I believe in dating without sex until marriage. I am not afraid to continue that stance.
How about this. You ignore my posts. And I will ignore yours. Cool feature of the board I recently discovered. The latter is already done.
I will say this, I think your behavior here is pretty telling for some of the problems you have in the past. It is ok to disagree. It not okay to be disagreeable.
Have a great life, I do pray for you as I pray for everyone here. And will continue.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
