Spouse has filed for divorce, and I want to stayed married. I am highly confident we can have a great marriage given the right set of tools/guidance. I am pretty sure we do not have that set of tools.
Married almost 2 decades. No kids.
We are living in the same house and getting along well. Other than the big D part.
This almost sounds like my first post.
Married 28 years, I wanted to stay married and she didn't.
We both lived in the same house - no affair on either side.
Yes you both need the set of tools and this can be a great place to get them.
I agree with the other posters that both of you need to agree to work on this or it will not succeed.
