But if I am hearing you correctly this is all based on him not being with OW. That is based on manipulation and control. That is like one kid saying to another "I won't be friends with you if you are friends with her". If you want to be friends and show kindness and compassion there shouldn't be any conditions.
If I read your reply it makes it even more clear how much I struggle with this, definitely with the above. If I understand well, I have to let him go in full, so not being his friend, only interaction in regards to our children and to be able to heal first? I’m clearly not over the fact about him being with an OW. and on the other hand I want to be there for him. Very confusing, I know…just venting now…
Mlc H has asked to talk tomorrow. I really don’t know what to say if he will start talking about OW2.
