ScottB, that is all understandable. Sounds like you dealt well and now on the backside of it you can unwind and relax.
I think you'll be surprised at what a non-event the finalization is. That's the one theme that comes through loud and clear in talking to others that have been through it. That dread it. But once it is over it is just like getting your driver license renewed. You've got this though, you've done the work, continue to, and I see a really bright future for you!
Now go put those plants in the right pots!!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018