Stella,

Good luck with your surgery today. I know how you feel. Right after my ex filed for divorce I had minor outpatient surgery. I went by myself and probably never felt more alone in my life. But you know what I made it through and so will you. When you get better we can help you work on NC and why it is good for your well being. Take care and be patient with yourself.

PS read Wayfarer's story when you get some time. She is a bad a$$ woman for Wisconsin too.