I also tell myself that the H I married and have known, would beat the crap out of the H is is now.
Lol. Yes, that is likely true!
As for needing to make decisions over memories and mementoes. Doing nothing is doing something.
You do not need to decide today what to keep or get rid of. Pack it up, and store it, if it is in the way or bothers you.
Do not make major irreversible decisions based upon emotions. Those will lead to regret. Find a calm time to make decisions. That applies to much more than mementoes of course.
Take care
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
