Hi DejaVu6 H always help aroud the H in the past, he would would take care of everything outside and I would handle the inside. He told me after he left that he would take care of the snow, but when I filed the D papers there was a restraining provision in it which H said he did not understant( or a excuse not sure) So I had clarified it with him through my ATTY and he through his ATTY.
I H wanted to come back, yes he would have alot of work to do on himself. That is why I have asked him a few times about times over the last 9 weeks about getting his own place. His answer has changed each time. At first, within first 2 weeks, he was going to get his own place. Next, week 3-5- Him and OW decided it would make no sence for him to get own place. Week 6 - was no I am not getting my own place and have not thought about it. Also all the places availble are expensive and not nice, And yesterday was, "well its to cold to move right now, and the one place that I sent him had not vacancies."
I don't want him back when he is still BD H, he need to figure himself out. I can not do that for him. Some days I even question if I ever want him back. It would be a very long unsure journey back.
He is paying OW like $700 to $800 a month for half the rent of the sh*t hole she rents. I have told him that I think she is just after his/our money. But he says, she had her own, to which I reminded him that she does not have "our type of money". I still think she is after our money and my H too.
