Also he brought up the money I transfed, half of our savings. He said he doesn't know why I did that, that he is not going to do anything with the money. I said that you were not acting like the H I know and I did't know if I could trust you with our finaces and need to protect myself, and my lawyer told me to transfer half. I said you are not acting like the man I know, he said I am still the same person. (he was today, but has not been for the last 8 months) He said that my ATTY, told him to open up his own bank account(not sure if this is true, probaly not) and he had X amount of money in it, that I could keep same amount of money in my account and put the rest back in our joint account. I told him I could not get to the bank until later next week, but that it didn't really matter as it would all be split anyway. He said he was going to just transfer the rest of it into his account, but he wanted to propose this to me first.
Also talked about his old boss with me, and what is going on with his life. I thought (did not say out loud) it must be nice to talk about people from our live without having to explain the importance of this person, in our lifes.. Then he said he was off to a hockey tourny that his boss and another employee where in on the nearby lake.
He seemed different today, of course the last time I saw him he was emotionless, monster and could not get out the door fast enough. Today, he was my H, the normal comfortable conversations, was very us. I could be reading way too much into this, thats my hope talking. I hope seeing me and the boys(fur babies), the talk about our D and getting his own place, maybe gave him lots to think about. I am projecting..I know. I miss my H.
Brings up alot of questions for myself as well. But none I want to think about today.
